Change is often met with resistance, especially when it feels out of our control. For many people, the idea of growing older and transitioning into residential aged care is daunting and may evoke fears of loss and uncertainty. It’s not just older people who feel the weight of this change — their children and families often bear the responsibility of making tough decisions, and can find the situation overwhelming.
However, the fear of ageing and moving into care doesn’t have to be insurmountable. With thoughtful planning and preparation, families can help ease the transition and reduce anxiety.
One of the biggest mistakes families can make is waiting until a crisis hits before making plans. In these moments, stress and panic often cloud judgment, amplifying fears for both the older person and their family. Starting the planning process early, may allow time to consider the options and come to terms with the change for a smoother and less stressful transition.
A common emotional hurdle is the attachment to the family home. The thought of leaving a place filled with years of memories can be difficult. Families can gently begin the process of letting go by decluttering and helping their loved one decide what’s truly important to keep. With time and preparation, the experience can be more positive, rather than just a rushed and painful task.
In addition to the loss of the physical home, many people fear the loss of independence, disruption to their daily routines, or being separated from a spouse. Concerns about quality of life — from meals to activities — can also weigh heavily.
Understanding these specific fears is key to addressing them effectively. For instance, if food is a concern, research aged care services that offer varied menus or allow residents to bring in meals from home. If hobbies and social interaction are priorities, select a care provider that offers a range of programs, like gardening or music, to maintain engagement.
Ultimately, while the move into aged care can feel overwhelming, addressing these fears head-on, with early planning, can smooth the path to a new chapter of life. If you are thinking about a move or how to approach the issue with an older family member, call our office on 1300 127 284 to discuss how we can help.
Factual Advice Warning: This document has been prepared based on our understanding of the relevant legislation at the time of writing. While every care has been taken, Aged Care Pathways WA makes no representation as to the accuracy or completeness of the contents. Any information provided in this website is purely factual in nature and does not take into account your personal objectives, situation or needs. The information is objectively ascertainable and is not intended to imply any recommendation or opinion. This does not constitute financial product advice under the Corporations Act 2001 (Cth). Before making decisions, you should consider the appropriateness for your personal investment objectives, financial situation or individual needs. We recommend you see a financial adviser, registered tax agent or legal adviser before making any decisions based on this information.
